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Posted - 23 Oct 2008 :  20:58:58  Show Profile  Email Poster  Reply with Quote
Hey All,
I have a girlfiend who I love very much and am planning on getting married to some day... She isn't saved and said she never would get saved... this is because of things she's been through, for her sake even tho she will probably never go on this site I won't say what these issues are...
I need help, a solution, I want her to know God and his eternal love and that he can heal her inner scars, I want her too see his majesty, his power, how much he loves, cause he is my almighty king, she doesn't understand why I get into worship in the car and alsways try's to change the station or cd...
Please HELP ME!!!

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Posted - 28 Oct 2008 :  21:54:14  Show Profile  Email Poster  Reply with Quote

You need to believe first of all that God is a healer.
You need to believe that he lives in the now and that those that are in Christ are a new creation, old things have passed away and behold all things are made new.
She needs to understand that Christians arent perfect which is why she needs Jesus.
Pray and fast about the situation for God to help you, to give you His wisdom and His heart for the situation and for a sensitivity to the Holy Ghosts prompting on when to say things/what to say and how to recognise open doors in her life.
This is just practical advice that has helped me over the years. Above all PRAYER and FASTING catch God's ear. Faith is also the currency that we need to operate in for spiritual needs which is applicable here.



LUKE 16:10
those who are faithful in the small things god will trust in the big things!
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Posted - 12 Jan 2009 :  18:00:56  Show Profile  Reply with Quote
the bible also says not to be unequally yoked with an unbeliever........
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Posted - 09 Apr 2009 :  00:34:11  Show Profile  Email Poster  Reply with Quote
How is one saved?

I find so many different ways mentioned in the bible as to this. How do you reconcile the right way? Is it action or faith?

Godless Heathen
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Posted - 15 Apr 2009 :  16:39:48  Show Profile  Email Poster  Reply with Quote
faith and action , both . eg: oh god give me a job , so youve asked god for a job , have asked by faith , Now you need action , get off your butt send out resumes to clients , door knock , ring potenial employers , read job adds , thats a basic example.

This sounds corny but kind of similar to ""the force "" on
star wars , the more you pray and read your bible the more you becoome stronger inside , having the word of god all through your body , so when things of life come along , you can discern if its the truth or rubbish . As maffio said its currency for christians , the more your into god the more he fills you up spiritually.

Yo Brendan sadly its true about being unequally yoked with an unbeliever, God says not to do it , obviously no one can stop you but it will be very hard for you and her , why cause she doesnt understand what salvation is and its the free gift of god, and why your so happy and so eventually she'll either somehow get saved or most likely spit the dummy and leave you or you will backslide and leave god ................ God can work miracles But Gods ways are not our ways , his thoughts are far higher than ours and he loves us more than anyone could .

Hey if you choose to end the relationship . mate God will bless you with an even more wonderful lady , its hard but worth it bro
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Posted - 30 May 2009 :  16:15:42  Show Profile  Email Poster  Reply with Quote
Hi Brendan. I just wanted to say...DON'T LOOSE HOPE! They say it is easier for a person to be pulled down then up, and while this may be sadly true, I just had to tell you that I know so MANY good people who through love and force of will (they simply refused to give up on their loved one)they ended up seeing that person saved by Gods grace.
God knows you and your girlfriend...he knows whatever pain she has, and if it is his will, he will work through you and others to bring her to him. Just keep in mind that God didn't give up on you, or me, and keep praying for her!!

If today was you last day...?
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Posted - 28 Mar 2010 :  21:27:08  Show Profile  Email Poster  Reply with Quote
Hi Brenden,

From someone who was in the same situation - well not exactly the same, I was the unsaved one - you should try to find a way to accept what you cannot change. It will only lead to problems otherwise.

God - My favourite fictional character. Homer Simpson
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Posted - 28 Feb 2013 :  15:02:59  Show Profile  Email Poster  Reply with Quote
Hi just wanted to say that it will be a very tough road if you stay with her. I know because my husband was the same way. I came to the Lord after we were married, for the last 37 years I have prayed for him nonstop and I am seeing some light but in so many ways I will never really be able to share the deep things of God with him. He is in so many ways a fine husband, kind and generous and very personable but the Lord is simply something I have difficulty sharing with him, I'm afraid I have been thrown under the bus, so to speak too many times when I have tried to share things with him. Our three kids however are saved but he still in so many ways is resistant and when I try now I can see him getting his back up still, I pray for him always and will remain with him, praise the Lord that I am exceedingly strong in the faith and have not wavered in my belief. You must be prepared that if you marry her that you will have arguments and disagreements , perhaps for a lifetime!
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